Site materials are based on the research, theories and clinical treatment and organizational development strategies of Martin G. Groder, M.D. and Anastasia Rosen-Jones (formerly Marcia E. Rosen). The Groder-Rosen formal name for the "Dark Side" is the "Survivor Addict".

Friday, July 30, 2021

Replacing The Mindless Cult Of The Dark Side

With the Mindful Cult Of GRAD 

Under Construction

Welcome To The World Of GRAD 

An adventure in learning how to live by the principles of our Truth or Dare GAME and our exceptional community approach to "longevity and well-being", especially in times of "survival" stakes, if they fit for you.
 The members of the NH/ZOP Board of Directors developed a unique synergy, applying these principles and practices, up against the pandemic.

Our net gain: Emotional, spiritual and relationship health, gratitude and much more.

Find out the more!



Coming soon -- a menu of opportunities for traveling with us.

YOUR entry point:  

1. Take and score our "Where Is Your Compassionate Warrior Hiding? inventory;

2. If your score on this imventory is "59" or less, you may qualify to be vetted for one of our currently very limited Pandemic Survivors Support Group spaces, attend our Mss Study Group or play in our Truth or Dare GAME.

3. Contact a NH ZOP Board Members to arrange for your qualifying opportunity @ MountainWomanRJ@aol.com

All potential, new participants in our programs and events are heavily vetted for likemindedness, particularly regarding each having a strong investment in truth, reconciliation and healing, i.e. personal transformation through conflict resolution, one of our key requirements.

YOUR Next Step:

A personal one on one conversation with Anastasia, tailored especially for your objectives, wants and needs.

Under construction


Look for details on how you can obtain 
our "travelers' guidebook" (original version} pictured above


Thursday, October 1, 2020

Mss Study Group Series Plan Replaced With Auditing Opportunity

Update: August 21, 2021

Plans for a Mss Study Group Series to be offered to the general public have been replaced, for the time being, with auditing opportunities for vetted candidates. (Details and further information, contact us at: MountainWomanRJ@aol.com). 

Hear our amazing "Elite" Mss Study Group live, as our board member participants take on their biggest pandemic emotional hurdles and support one another in our amazing "Mss Study Group" that has been our strength throughout the pandemic crisis.

We have no idea how we could have survived without one another to help get us through one ordeal after another.

Begun only weeks before quarantining, lockdowns, masks and social distancing, we discovered, as we became weekly traveling companions on an adventure through the pandemic, aided by the wisdom of the entire collection of my unpublished Random House Trilogy, a pandemic survivors equivalent of a trip tik, an emotional and practical how-to manual, in fact, plus the author who wrote it, me, to help guide us through. 

Thus, we began a journey that may well last our life times, boosted by our twice weekly Pandemic Survivors Support Group.

Here's how it began.....

It was early February (2020) when, surfacing out of the depths of my generally overlooked, vintage steamer trunk, my “Random House Trilogy" rose up like an undersea nymph, beckoning hands holding out the precious details of my life's work that serendipitously contained within its pages a series of detailed detailed instructions on how to move beyond the very survival-oriented challenges we faced at that time and still continue to do so for the foreseeable future.

For more than two decades, thousands of pages laying out my earliest attempts to be a storyteller and the wide-ranging research and clinical treatment strategies of my twenty-five plus years work as a psychotherapist. 

Quietly, without my being consciously aware of their separating from me, they had settled themselves into the depths of that trunk, mostly out of sight out of mind (for others, not me personally). 

Now, almost magically, these pages had resurfaced, just a few short weeks before covid-19 brought our lives, as we had known them, to a screeching halt.

The pandemic had come, quarantining was upon us, crisis and chaos surrounded us on all sides.

But here, in the midst, came a collection of unpublished manuscripts with a definitive formula about how to SURVIVE well, under undue pressure and stress.

A step-by-step manual on surviving as a winner, mentally healthfully, even through life-threatening ordeals, such as the pandemic and the political corruption now tearing our country apart, as a winner -- 

Winning intended to mean being an individual of character, of high moral ethics, mental clarity, truthfulness, compassion and integrity, at the top of the list. A person who seeks opportunities, lessons and gifts to aid personal growth and development out of circumstances that might defeat others.

Not a Donald Trump or anyone like him!

Into the midst of this came “Anastasia’s Random House Trilogy,” buried twenty years and more, nearly out of sight, and NOW --  more than ready to fly free to points and places calling out for the wisdom contained within, high-powered, beautiful words I had written decades ago 

They were ready to soar, with heightened meaning, richly aged, maturing as they had been doing all these many years.

Now -- time for the teachings of these pages, primed to go full-front public, to come out of hiding, to do the good that was always their intent!

Not thirty years ago (1990) when book #1 Suriving Addictions: Transforming The Rebellious Inner Child was in progress. 

Not twenty-five years ago, when I wrote Journey Back To Me (1995), a treatise on my personal applications and transformation through these teachings of Marty Groder's and mine.

And, lastly, not even twenty-two years ago when my final round of editing for Exploring Your Dark Side: The Adventure Of A Lifetime, the namesake of this blog site, was aborted due to my losing my eyesight (1998).

No! None of these!

2020 forward in the midst of crises is to be their coming out, their destiny.

I don’t know yet how to tell you of the adventure the opening of this vintage trunk and the bringing out of its contents has brought to the Board Members of the New Horizons/Small “Zones of Peace” organization and myself through our new Mss Elite Study Group that has now evolved out of a most surprising study adventure.

I can, however, tell you that the exploration, now pledged by each one of us, to continue until death do us part, for me to interpret and guide the entire collection with my board members, has brought us to be deeply bonded traveling companions on a journey none of us anticipated at the onset. 

February 28 was the date these devoted board members of mine first came together to be instructed, briefly by me on the first five chapter (out of approximately forty-five chapters total) of my complete collection, a gift I had designed especially to emotionally fortify Board Member Terry who had lost her home and all its contents. In one of Northern California fires. 

With an aching heart I had watched her struggling, two years later, to recover her former stamina, mental health-wise and practically, from the Carr Fire (2018) that had brought such devastation to her life.  

The very first Mss Study Group lifted each of us, with exhilaration, though we hadn’t yet set our schedule for Mss Study Group #2. Before we got that far, however. came the pandemic and quarantining with life taking on new ways of doing and being. 

Simultaneously those of my board members who had opted to study these tomes with me, quickly realized that here in this Mss Study Group, in the midst of the pandemic, we had in our collective hands, written by my own, personally, a tried and true formula on how to survive well and even thrive through troubled times like these.

Audited attendance at a Mss Study Group, from here forward, will also be a prerequisite for our Pandemic Survivors Support Groups and our Truth Or Dare GAME.

Soon, very soon, we are going to soon start sharing our know-how and abundance with you.

Details coming soon.


Wednesday, February 26, 2020

Mss Study Group #1: Discussion Overview

In the interest of sharing the journey of our very special "Mss Study Group," the following notes are offered as they will be presented for discussion in Mss Study Group #1, to be held on Friday, February 28, 2020.

Update: March 1, 2020

Here is a brief report on how our first Mss Study Group turned out.

It is our hope and our intent that the whole of our discussion will be recorded and can then be made available either by recording, download or transcript. We will keep our online readers updated on details.

In the event that our plans are successful, you may be able to look forward to copies of the original, unedited manuscript becoming available through our New Horizons/Small "Zones of Peace" eBay store, should we believe it to be of benefit, along with recordings etc. of our discussions.

Surviving (Adrenalin) Addictions: Transforming The Rebellious/Survivor Inner Child

Chapter One: Overview, Circa 1991

Surviving (Adrenalin) AddictionsTransforming The Rebellious/Survivor Inner Child, circa 1991, was written, originally for the addiction recovery genre, with an emphasis on non-ingested chemical addictions (i.e. relationship and personality addictions) with a special focus on the collusion between the passive addict, or co-dependent personality, and the aggressive or power addicted personality. 

This original text, virtually unedited, begins in Chapter One with a discussion of the rampant personal alienation most addict-types experience that thrusts the underlying forces of their addict-function living into the overdrive of survival instincts out of control.

Taking issue with the commonly held view that chemical addiction is solely-based on a disease, Ms. Rosen-Jones and her former mentor, psychiatrist Martin G. Groder, M.D., the original architect of the Groder-Rosen Addiction Development theory (GRAD), seek to establish an alternative, biologically-based perspective for understanding what the GRAD theory identifies as a survivor/addict personality that, in their shared opinion, offers a differing perspective regarding the diagnosis and treatment planning for this personality type that may be regarded as more of a health model rather than a disease model.

The Prologue

Drafted, initially, when Ms. Rosen-Jones was in her mid-forties the "Prologue" presents a picture of a rather naive Marcia/Anastasia, albeit a budding and brilliant scholar, that held Dr. Groder in such high esteem as to have, unfortunately, positioned her for the power abuse and sexual harassment by Dr. Groder that was to, eventually lead the Groder-Rosen collaboration to its painful demise in 1990, eventually resulting in Ms Rosen-Jones filing an ethics charges in 2018 regarding these inappropriate and damaging actions on his part with the International Transactional Analysis Association (ITAA) of which they were both members, Dr. Groder as Marcia/Anastasia's supervisor, she as his trainee.


The Prologue, while rather embarrassing to me (Anastasia) at this late date, is of note today, from a historical perspective, given the commencement of Ms Rosen-Jones' student-teacher relationship with Dr. Groder while she was in her 39th year when it began and he was already internationally known as an ITAA Teaching Member as well as a prominent expert for his work in establishing the Asklepeion Therapeutic Community Model within the Federal Corrections system (Scroll down on the wikipedia page to section on U.S.). 

Based on its historical benefit, more will be discussed and noted here, regarding the Prologue as discussion unfolds in the Mss Study Group.

Mss Study Group Announces: Surviving The U.S.A., Original Unedited Version

This coming Friday, Part one of the ten parts that make up the whole of my (Anastasia's) still unpublished Random House Trilogy, will start on its way to, at last, being published, hopefully in 2022. The initial phase will start off with the New Horizons/Small "Zones Of Peace" Board of Directors, also known as the Elite Truth Or Dare GAME players (i.e. the Truth Squad) working with me (Anastasia) from here forward to accomplish this end by studying, discussing, applying and updating my original Random House manuscript, new working title SURVIVING THE USA, Circa 2016 -- Fwd, with a very special Mss Study Group.

Preliminary discussions among us suggest that what we will endeavor to do will be rich and rewarding in its process, personally and on behalf of the two non-profit organizations I have founded, New Horizons Support Network, Inc. and the Small “Zones of Peace” Inc.

Given that I have always assumed that if forward progress was to be made on this aborted publishing project of mine, due to my becoming blind in 1998 through 2006, just as I was in the final phase of editing for release, I envisioned the effort as a completely solo act on my part. So, my board members  unexpectedly joining me, is quite the blessing!

For now, while we will keep our eyes on our intended destination, hard copy publication, we will not neglect to luxuriate in the magnificence the process will bring us. Our intentions will, however, never veer away from our more altruistic motivation to offer from a certain knowledge base, all of that which has gone into the development and application of the GRAD theory, developed initially by Marty Groder and expanded beyond by myself, Anastasia.

While we are setting off  on the adventure of our Mss Study Group,  board members will be considering if and how we might share both our journey and the original, unedited manuscript in the service of benefiting our interested online readers and other followers of our New Horizons/Small "Zones of Peace" programs and projects.

Monday, May 6, 2019

Telling The Truth: An Essay


Excerpted (edited and updated) from …

The Voice Of New Horizons Center
© Marcia E. Rosen, 1985



Most of us like to think we are fairly honest. In fact, the majority of people believe they are quite committed to their personal integrity. If and when someone questions our honesty or truthfulness, we are usually offended, even self-righteously ANGRY,

“Oh, no, not I!! LYING???!!


One "verifiable truth," however, according to the advanced Transactional Analysis research and theories, the GRAD theory, of Dr. Martin G. Groder, M,D. and New Horizons Executive Director and Founder, Marcia E. Rosen (see The Voice Of New Horizons, Volume #1, #1, Spring, 1985), is that the majority of people in our contemporary society are so frequently driven by survival imperatives other than honesty, integrity and truthfulness that truth-telling often lies far down on the list of priorities. 


Sometimes, in fact, truth-telling and its companion, truth-listening, are actually viewed as the antithesis to survival necessities, too cumbersome, too distracting from one's greater  goals.


So why bother taking the time to be genuinely straightforward


In other words, "Honesty does not pay well."
New Horizons, circa 1986


As a nation of civilized people, we are very urgently involved in getting our own self-important wants/needs met. As a result we are accustomed to getting by on minimal, half-truths, accepting that this is adequate.


If, however, as individuals and interconnected communities, we are content to accept this state of affairs, wherein half-truths, white lies and even bold-faced lies are acceptable, we are actually limiting our "civilized" capabilities, operating a bit more savage than we like to think of ourselves as doing and being. 


What's your take?  


And is your "truthful" answer to that question, consistent with how you genuinely live your life?


If we pause long enough to examine this situation -- as it is today -- we might discover that the cost of the quiet, the holding back, the coloring of facts and the lack of being more transparently forthcoming, all of which distort full reality, may be costing more than we truly wish to pay.


From this vantage place, we might see that the proliferation of non-truths is potentially at great cost to us, as citizens, if we look closely at what is accepted as "fact," in us and around us -- because we have not made telling the truth important enough as a personal responsibility.


As the principles of Alcoholics Anonymous suggest --  "We thought we could find an easier, softer way... (meaning without sobreity), but...


The same applies to becoming a dedicated truth-teller which should not come as a surprise. For example. I discovered in my professional work, especially in my role as GAME Conductor,  that truth-telling, truth-listening and even full truth-knowing (i.e. being optimally conscious) does not come with ease to the MAJORITY of people.


So much so that non-truth telling is almost addictive to many, if not most, people.


On the other hand, many have made being disturbed by the lies others tell of great concern, such as the finger-pointing of the anti-Trumpers.


Our current president has certainly brought the flagrant disregard for truth-telling to the fore for many people presently.


However to do this finger-pointing at Trump while omitting the responsibility each and everyone of us has for, also telling the truth, leaves personal accountability out of the equation for solving the problems of lying and corruption in our society, making a joke of the drama playing out daily on the American stage, socially and politically.


We will look at these issues here, over time, "G-d willing and the creek don't rise."


In the essay that follows, I will present perspectives on the topic of truth-telling, originally based on my training and supervision with both Dr. Groder and Ken Windes, a prominent, rehabilitated convict, now deceased, who was, also, Marty’s protegee and my mentor, teaching me the technology to become the Master Conductor of the New Horizons Truth Or Dare GAME, intent on getting at the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth, as an essential pathway to transformation. 


Beginning with the extensive and intense guidance and training these two men afforded me, I have, since, come to believe that “telling the truth” is the essential foundation, practically, theoretically and strategically, for treating dysfunction in individuals, relationships, communities, businesses and organizations – and – even a nation, that these may all be return to a basic state of health, well-being and the potential for evolving to their highest capacities.


Truth-telling is one essential in critical problem-solving.


How can we, as a nation of "civilized people,

 ignore that piece of truth and thrive??

Ask yourself!


Discuss it with your friends, family and neighbors.


That's what we are doing more and more, each day, at New Horizons as our Truth Or Dare GAME takes center stage in programs and projects and, on a regular basis, as a grounding strategy for our Board of Directors that is regularly using as a grounding strategy


We've been doing our Truth or Dare GAME for close to forty-five years at New Horizons. Yet, now, with our revitalized GAME each New Horizons/Small "Zones Of Peace" Board Member GAME player is presently discovering new vistas of wholeness, beauty and joy in the doing.


Thus both our personal and our collective Pro-Truth Pledges are lifting us, amazingly.


Such a simple thing, it would seem, truth-telling and truth-listening.
But not easy at all!

Friday, April 5, 2019

The Subtle – And – Not So Subtle Ways Truth-Telling Helps People Move Beyond Gender Tyranny, If, In Fact, It Does


Coming soon --


"The Subtle – And – Not So Subtle Ways 
Truth-Telling Helps People Move Beyond Gender Tyranny, If, In Fact, It Does"

A Commentary by Anastasia, New Horizons Small “Zones of Peace”                 Executive Director and Founder

Also, hear Anastasia discuss Moving Beyond Gender Tyranny on Anastasia The Storyteller Radio with --- 

Wednesday, April 10     10:30 a.m.

Also contact Anastasia, The Super Sleuth for personal coaching and consulting, specializing in #MeToo-related issues.

All fees presently being donated to New Horizons "Beyond Gender Tyranny and Truth Or Dare Initiatives.
Anastasia, The Super Sleuth

Wednesday, April 3, 2019

It's All About The Dark Side: Moving Beyond Gender Tyranny: What Does It Mean And How Do You Do It?

If, as I, perhaps, might have inferred (at least I intended to) in "Joe Biden-Lucy Flores Drama Brings New Horizons Infamous "No Abuse" Rule To The Fore," Biden did not break any rules -- and -- is, therefore, not guilty of a criminal act or even a civil breach, what does his situation offer to teach us about gender tyranny being a two-way street, especially when he speaks up to take responsibility, as our "no abuse" demands?

And, offers to listen, respectfully?

What does all this mean for our learning to move beyond gender tyranny as one of our biggest and most important cultural challenges of the 21st century?

Read "Anastasia commentary," today on this issue and more coming soon, including an online radio show now being created for Anastasia The Storyteller Radio.